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I devote this article to the women who are soon going to be or are already forty. Many women consider this to be the beginning of middle age, but as to me life is only beginning after forty, and these are not just words! If you are scared or depressed, I totally understand you. But I will try to show you that life goes on and give you some advice on how to stay positive and enthusiastic about your age.
The thing is that everything totally depends on your personal attitude. If you convince yourself that after forty your life is going to change and something terrible (or wonderful) is going to happen – you may have no doubts that it will be so. But if you just keep on living in spite of the fourth “zero” in your life, it will go on like it was before.
Yes, some things are going to change. Your skin will probably not be as clear, shining and smooth as it was 15 years ago, and your body will meet certain transformations too. But who told these changes are bad? I’ve met hundreds of women in my life that started looking really beautiful and gorgeous only after forty, as they have turned into real, powerful women! You just have to meet these changes calmly and with a sense of humour and start paying more attention to yourself.
If you wish, this new decade will bring a lot of changes into your life, and it is up to you to decide whether these changes will be positive or not. Look at this optimistically – you are a wise woman now, and the fifth decade of your life is a great opportunity to find more relaxation, to change some of your principles, to accept yourself as you are, to deepen your relationship with family and friends (and if you don’t have family yet, is there more favourable age to settle down than now, when you are independent, wise and beautiful?)
There are plenty of things you can and should improve in your life after forty. Here are some pieces of advice that can be very helpful if you are still afraid:
• Love yourself and work at yourself, but never be too strict to yourself.
• Love the others for no particular reason.
• Joke and laugh – this is totally appropriate at any age.
• Read a lot, and try to read more quality classical literature.
• Never look back, because you can’t change the past, but your future is in your hands.
• Don’t worry to much – live for your own pleasure.
• Spend a lot of time with friends who give you best emotions.
• Deprive yourself of all negative feelings – you are wise enough to treat the life philosophically!
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